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The Divorce Alliance: the whole team, not just the mortgage.
A collaborative New Jersey alliance of family law attorneys, mediators, divorce financial professionals, financial advisors, real estate agents and mortgage professionals, offering educational guidance for the decisions divorce forces people to make.
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What is The Divorce Alliance?
A collaborative New Jersey alliance of family law attorneys, mediators, divorce financial professionals, financial advisors, real estate agents and mortgage professionals, offering educational guidance for the decisions divorce forces people to make.
Written and reviewed by Abdel Khawatmi, Area Manager at Got Mortgages (NMLS #1712023) ·
What the alliance offers
Six disciplines, one network
Family law attorneys, mediators, divorce financial professionals, financial advisors, real estate agents and mortgage professionals under one referral network.
A guided starting point
For people who do not know who to call first - the alliance routes them to the right professional based on their situation.
Planning checklists
Downloadable planning checklists per discipline, plus questions to ask each type of professional.
Housing guidance
Housing, legal and financial guidance in one place, including what to do about the home and the mortgage.
Ask DNA
A simple way to find your starting point based on your situation, so no one gets bounced between professionals.
New Jersey focused
Built for New Jersey homeowners and the professionals advising them, with introductions routed to the right discipline.
Who The Divorce Alliance is for
Divorce touches legal, financial and housing decisions at the same time, and most people have no idea who to call first. The alliance exists so they do not have to assemble the team alone.
It is built for both the professionals who refer within the network and the clients they serve. Attorneys, mediators and advisors get a vetted set of counterparts; homeowners get a guided path instead of a cold search.
What each professional actually does
The hub explains, in plain language, what each discipline in the alliance handles and when to bring them in. That clarity keeps clients from calling the wrong professional first - or, worse, no one at all.
- Ask DNA: find your starting point based on your situation
- What each professional actually does, and when to involve them
- Downloadable planning checklists per discipline
- Housing, legal and financial guidance in one place
- A simple way to reach the right professional
How it connects to our divorce lending practice
The mortgage and housing side of the alliance is led by Abdel Khawatmi, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional. Where a file needs equity buyout modeling, refinance planning or guidance on releasing a spouse from the mortgage, it routes directly into our dedicated divorce lending practice.
Everything stays confidential and educational - no application, no credit pull, and no pressure to commit to a path before the numbers make sense.
What you will find at TheDivorceAlliance.com
- Ask DNA: find your starting point based on your situation
- What each professional actually does, and when to involve them
- Downloadable planning checklists per discipline
- Housing, legal and financial guidance in one place
- A simple way to reach the right professional
Explore the other partner platforms
The Divorce Alliance is one of four platforms built for real estate professionals and the people they work with.
- For real estate pros overviewThe full partner program: scenario desk, buyer preparation and co-branded education.
- Partner Value OfferingsSame-day pre-approvals, a scenario desk and co-branded education for NJ partners.
- The Elevated AllianceA mastermind for business owners and sales leaders built on strategy, systems and automation.
- Got ToolboxFree calculators, insight drives, AI agents and execution templates for partners.
- Divorce lending at Got MortgagesOur dedicated divorce mortgage planning practice, led by a Certified Divorce Lending Professional.
Questions people actually ask
- A collaborative New Jersey alliance of family law attorneys, mediators, divorce financial professionals, financial advisors, real estate agents and mortgage professionals. It offers educational guidance for the decisions divorce forces people to make.
Point your clients to the whole team.
Visit TheDivorceAlliance.com to see the network, then connect with us when a file needs the mortgage and housing side handled.
Educational information only. Not a commitment to lend, an offer of credit, or a guarantee of terms, approval, savings, or timing. All scenarios are illustrative and anonymized. Equal Housing Opportunity.
Professional network
The Divorce Alliance: the whole team, not just the mortgage.
A collaborative New Jersey alliance of family law attorneys, mediators, divorce financial professionals, financial advisors, real estate agents and mortgage professionals, offering educational guidance for the decisions divorce forces people to make.
- Six professional disciplines under one referral network
- A guided starting point for people who do not know who to call first
- Planning checklists and questions to ask each type of professional
- New Jersey focused, with introductions routed to the right discipline
What you will find there
- Ask DNA: find your starting point based on your situation
- What each professional actually does, and when to involve them
- Downloadable planning checklists per discipline
- Housing, legal and financial guidance in one place
- A simple way to reach the right professional
Full details at TheDivorceAlliance.com.

